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Emotional ROI Coaching©

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It's long been well established by business coaches, entrepreneurs, multi-millionaires, and psychology principles that the WHY of what we do matters. Change the WHY and achieve massive results. 

But when I say to you - WHY do you do what you do? You look at me blankly and blink and say 'I don't know'

Emotional ROI (Return on Investment) Coaching© focuses on the realization that taking the time to discover the WHY is valuable and the key to creating the kinds of changes needed to actually live your dreams. By discovering WHY you are doing something, you can also discover the emotional impact that choice is having and make a new choice about how you are living. Emotional ROI Coaching© goes counter to the social norm of 'put your head down, just keep pushing through, there's nothing you can do' and begins to examine with you how you can have freedom and choices in your life to do the things you want to. 

Emotional ROI Coaching© isn't a silver bullet end all be all. It's a method of changing how you think and interact with your day to day life, helping you to become more conscious of the emotions, dreams, and desires that are driving who you are so that you can begin to live more intentionally. As you learn to release the patterns, behaviors, and labels that you have acquired over a lifetime, you begin to be able to live more authentically and naturally as you which, in turn, produces a lifestyle and life attitude more in line with what you want for you. 

Diets, budgets, career changes, travelling, shopping, and partying are only temporary fixes. If you don't address WHY - the real Emotional Impact of your feelings on your behaviors, you can't have permanent change in your life. There is a Return on Investment for getting to know your WHY - and it can change your life - forever. 

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What people are saying

"After talking with you and hearing about your experiences, it made me realize my life wasn't as impossible as I thought. It gave me hope to try and go after what I wanted more."

"Your budget help completely turned my financial picture around. I went from $500 in the hole every month to having more than $1200 extra in my budget and am finally being able to reach my financial goal of saving. Your budget help made it possible for me to retake control of my life and my coworkers can't figure out how I can afford to do the things I like. They're always worried about money." -----Dreams-n-Reality is NOT a financial planner or accounting partner or certified in a money field. All financial advice is given as suggestions and the decision to pursue those actions is the sole discretion of the client and the results are NOT the responsibility of Dreams-n-Reality.

"You were right. When I finally did the things you suggested and focused on me, I met the girl of my dreams. We're married with a son now."

"I didn't want to hear the advice you gave me. It was really hard for me. But I thought about what you told me for a long time and I have finally started making the changes in my life. I'm finally getting my life stable and taking better care of my kids and me."


"What you taught me I pass on to my friends and employees when their having problems in their own lives. They know they can come to me for advice and it helps them be more effective at work to have some creative solutions to their problems."

How much has it already cost you?

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You can continue to have the stance that nothing's going to work and it's too hard or too expensive, but let's be honest. Emotional ROI Coaching© requires you to be able to be honest with you - brutally honest - maybe for the first time. 

How much have you already spent on solutions and changes that never worked?
How much money do you spend on entertainment, outings, purchases, or partying - that has never fixed anything?
How much time have you already spent complaining about the same issues that keep cropping up over and over again in your life? How many friends and relationships have you already lost because of those things?

You are who you are - at the core of you there is a consistent set of behaviors and characteristics that make you uniquely you. Keep fighting against them, keep refusing to understand them, keep pretending they aren't there - and you're just gonna keep existing and never actually live. 

Is that really what you want for your life? 

It takes courage, perseverance, and strength to create real change in your life. But it also produces amazing results. Stop believing you can't have what you want. Stop falling for the marketing hype that if you just buy that next doodad you'll have a fix to your life. You know what you really want. So let's find out why you aren't getting it.

Emotional ROI Coaching© Areas

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You can't change everything all at once. Change is a process - the process of becoming you. 
The good news is you don't need to change everything all at once. Right now, there is one area that is the biggest problem for you. Start with it. Get some changes going and some relief in that area. Learn some new perspectives, tools, and tricks and then you'll have time and resources to go on to the other areas if you need to. This isn't about selling you. This is about helping you to change and become the you that you know you've always wanted to be. When you're ready, you'll know what area and package is right for you.

We focus on 6 areas: 


Pick One to focus on:
1) You're not Alone - Parenting advice for the 21st century
2) Fear doesn't get to win and pain is only temporary - Personal Development, growth, and change
3) Dating isn't a sport - how to have real love relationships sustained in your life
4) Business is Business - using efficiency and technology to make your business thrive
5) Drawing Closer to God - Christian Coaching focused on how your faith shows up in your daily life

6) Budgeting Basics - NOT financial planning - this is focused on WHY you spend what you do, why you beat yourself up for it, and how to fix it so your money stops running you.

Emotional ROI Coaching© Methods

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Now that you've picked which area you want to focus on, you need to pick which method of coaching works best for you. You already know how you learn best. If lectures aren't for you, a conference probably isn't going to work for you. We want to work with who you are and how you naturally like to do things - because that's what's going to work for you. The information, materials, coaching, and package all need to be driven and designed around you and who you are and what you're unique need is. Because the WHY in you is unique to you, the coaching needs to be unique too.

How do you learn best? Do you like self-driven learning where you have access to tons of articles and resources and you can read through them and challenge and pace yourself? Or will you never get around to reading them? Are you the kind of person who needs to talk things through with someone and wants to be able to email or call frequently to get that extra bit of support and encouragement? Are you a go-getter who just needs someone to lay out a plan for you and send the information to you step by step as you make each part happen in your life? Or are you the kind who wants to do the journey step by step with someone, checking in with your coach weekly or daily to get feedback on your thoughts and what changes you are trying?

We have 3 methods for Emotional ROI Coaching©:

Self-paced Method is perfect for someone who has a really good idea of what they want to accomplish but needs some support on how to accomplish it. Designed for the more independent learner, we provide tools, articles and resources to help you grow in the specific area you've chosen. The material is delivered through our client-only coaching software interface which includes areas for you to journal about your challenges, set goals, track metrics as you accomplish those goals, and even schedule one-on-one coaching appointments if/when the need for extra help arises. One-on-one coaching sessions are done on an as needed basis and price plan.

Self-paced Emotional ROI Coaching©

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Intensive Coaching Method is perfect for someone who has an idea, goal, or dream in mind but needs help organizing it, sorting through it, developing an action plan, and getting started. The initial sessions are one-on-one coaching calls designed to establish a clear vision for the changes you want in your chosen area. Follow-up calls then provide workable action steps, accountability, results inventories, evaluation of hang-ups, and discussion of options available. You also receive access to the client-only coaching software interface which includes areas for you to journal about your challenges, set goals, track metrics as you accomplish those goals, and even schedule one-on-one coaching appointments if/when the need for extra help arises. You are provided with 3 one-on-one coaching sessions for this package and can schedule additional coaching sessions on an as needed basis and price plan.This package is great for people who aren't sure how committed they are to making large changes right now, but are ready to start exploring new possibilities for their life.

Intensive Emotional ROI Coaching©

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Premium Coaching Method is the most commonly used package and provides the best value. It's for clients who want to work towards real in-depth change in how they live and think about their lives. It provides resources, support, and time enough for them to really get into the coaching goals and lessons and learn what makes them tick and how to stop the roadblocks from occurring. The initial sessions establish a clear vision for the future the client desires to attain. Follow-up calls then provide workable action steps, accountability/results inventories, evaluation of hang-ups, and discussion of options available. You also receive access to the client-only coaching software interface which includes areas for you to journal about your challenges, set goals, track metrics as you accomplish those goals, and even schedule one-on-one coaching appointments if/when the need for extra help arises. You are provided with unlimited one-on-one coaching sessions for this package to be used anytime within a year of starting your coaching. Most people accomplish their desired changes within just a few months, but results do vary depending on individual efforts. 

Premium Emotional ROI Coaching©

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Cancellation Policy: The client will be responsible for scheduling of appointments and milestone/goal/activity due dates. Because of this, it is expected that the client will be on time and prepared for all sessions. If the client is unable to meet a specific scheduled item, they will reschedule the item and inform the coach via the appropriate software or by email or phone. Clients are financially responsible for missed appointments that they did NOT reschedule or cancel. 

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